So, I will be reviewing some of my online chat with targets on this blog, to give a brief review of my way of "effective distributing high value chat".
I am still not a pro, these are my experiences.
THE CHAT (REVIEWS)
Pay attention and you will see that I use the techniques listed below as the foundation to chat. This is kind of my style and might not be good when used by the others, so build your own style!
Technique used (To lay down foundation):
- Distributing high value
- (By not remembering her name & who she is, and also some late replies)
- Decreasing her value (Comment her work sucks, face round, stuff)
- Distributing confidence (By regarding myself handsome)
- Showed humour (Jokes)
- Showed her I am a pro in something (Study, music, magic, anything)
- Showed her I am a "different" guy
- Give her a nickname (Girls like that alot)
- Distributing high social value
To close (ask her out, ask for her number, etc):
- Asked by telling her I don't use FB chat much, use other apps(distribute ego-ness)
- Asked her to treat(She will treat as a joke, but if she seems ok, you insist)
- Sending photos/videos/audio notes (to build rapport, to make her feel close to you)
#1 (5/10, not very good yet, not very bad)
- Saturday
- Today
- Cruise Tan我以前好像看过你
- Cruise Tan是么 怎么会不认识的 O.O
- Cruise Tan你华语好差 LOL
- Cruise Tan不熟练 huh LOL有些印象 那过后你飞去哪里
- Cruise Tan干嘛去那里
- Cruise Tan那 难怪没机会认识帅哥囖 LOL
- Cruise Tan<-- 帅哥
- Cruise Tan诚实什么叫现在的人 huh
- Cruise Tan他们自恋 我只是跟你讲人家每次说我的东东罢了 LOL
- Cruise Tan哈哈哈 LOL刚从 BP 上来 KL, 连 haze 也跟着来了
- Cruise Tan跟着我来 哈哈哈奇怪的烟
- Cruise Tanhmm 那你现在在哪里
- Cruise Tan什么东西来的 LOL
- Cruise Tan你有 whatsapp/wechat 吗, 我通常没用 FB chat 的。
- Cruise Tan是哪个 LOL0177437749 add 我contact 然后信息我啦等下 你的号码是什么我发现我有很多 jiayi
- Cruise Tan“jiayi Kampar"
- Cruise Tan下次我去那里你再请我吃饭
- Cruise Tan还考虑哦那么大牌人家要请我还要排队 LOL
- Cruise Tanhmm 也对厚 哈哈哈哈哈
END
#2 (4/10, Trapped by her "number trap", and can't find a very good way out)
- Saturday
- Today
- Cruise Tan我好像在哪里看过你 LOL
- Leane Wen IIi study at sdbl de lea @_@
- Cruise TanO.O是啊 好不面善
- Leane Wen IIhaha . hen shao kan dao ba XD
- Cruise Tan应该是上次在方一看到吧跟 riene 的吧
- Leane Wen IIyou merh ? wo memory bu hao . enen XD haha
- Cruise Tan哎呀我不是停下来问她去哪里啊这样你哪里会没注意到
- Leane Wen IIowh , i knw edi !wo mei kan shi shui . wo dong shi 1 ge nan de haha.
- Cruise TanLOL 你对帅哥不敏感
- Leane Wen IIshuai ge?! faint haha
- Cruise Tan事实啊 LOL
- Leane Wen II@_@
- Cruise Tan我记得你是那个圆圆的 LOL在学校有些印象了
- Leane Wen IIyuan yuan de -.- @@ wo dong wo hen fei XD
- Cruise Tan知道就好啊不过有些可爱 hmm
- Leane Wen IIkelian mei ren ai haha
- Cruise Tan是么读第几班你
- Leane Wen IIshi larh . 4.3 u last time wad stream?
- Cruise Tanhandsome stream
- Leane Wen IIyulks haha. seriously~!
- Cruise Tan干嘛事实 LOLscience stream, 第一班
- Leane Wen IIwow @_@geng!
- Cruise Tan4.3 是什么班来的
- Leane Wen IIscience also
- Cruise Tan想当年又帅又强的我 LOL想念学校
- Leane Wen IIbie e larh , haha . spm how many A's u get?go back c then haha
- Cruise Tanwhat is bie eSPM 很烂回去你请我吃面
- Leane Wen II别恶 xD how many A's larh XDok ! u wait haha
- Cruise Tan你讲的蛤你反悔你就变猪
- Leane Wen IIi already said . u wait lohaha
- Cruise Tan等而已囖让你请好不好哦 人家要好要排队 LOL
- Leane Wen II人家要好要排队?den i just rejecthaha
- Cruise Tan等着变猪吧 (oo)要还要排队*
- Leane Wen IIno diff to me. so fat @_@
- Cruise Tan哈哈哈!好笑 LOL第一次看到人家自己讲自己是猪
- Leane Wen II@_@ fei dao xiang zhu @_@
- Cruise Tan就叫你猪猪吧
- Leane Wen IIleane bi jiao hao ting
- Cruise Tan猪猪
- Leane Wen IIni zhu ba jieXDD
- Cruise Tan我不介意 LOL刚从 BP 上来 KL, 连 haze 也跟着来了
- Leane Wen IIwhy keep lol @_@
cause haze love u haha - Cruise Tan总之 记得要请我就好了要珍惜机会
- Leane Wen IIbu xiang treat u edi haha
- Cruise Tan哈哈哈哈 不介意哦
- Leane Wen IIhaha . XD
- Cruise Tan你有 whatsapp/wechat 吗, 我通常没用 FB chat 的。
- Leane Wen IInop . haven chg phone . sad casewhy?
- Cruise Tan懒惰开 FB chat 吗
- Leane Wen IIhen xiang zhu @@
- Cruise Tan没比你像啦你唯一不像猪的地方是 那么迟了还不去睡 xD
- Leane Wen IIzui hao XDD hahaha . ni fa xian le !! zhong yu fa xian le XDDwo hen chi shui de. ke shi jin tian you dian lei xD
- Cruise Tan被人讲是猪吗 LOL017 7437749 信息我等你换电话了就自动加 wechat/whatsapp 囖
- Leane Wen IIhaha ,, bu yao XD.. guo hou zai shuo ba . na ge dian hua dou hai mei chu TT
- Leane Wen IIwad face is tat haha
- Cruise Tandamn you de face
- Leane Wen IIden continue ba =x
END
#3 (8/10, One of my admirer, just a follow up for her to not "forget" me)
- 15 June
- Cruise Tan好不好啊
- Cruise Tan好久好久喔 哈哈这里很好哦
- Cruise Tan是咯 很多帅哥哦 哈哈哈那么晚了你还不要睡啊
- 17 June
- Cruise Tan谁讲帅不能当饭吃啊 哈哈哈排写那时没看到信息
- 17 June
- Cruise Tan会好哦 lol每个拜六都有回来 等我回来你请我喝茶哦
- Cruise Tan想看你咯所以回来 还不要请我 LOL
- Cruise TanSTARBUCKSS答应了哦
- Cruise Tan是咩 忘记了 啊哈哈答应就是答应了哦
- Saturday
- Cruise Tan满天飞喔
- Cruise Tan云顶啊 那么好玩
- Cruise Tan是喔 好可怜 哈哈哈 几时考试
- Cruise Tan我们每次都在考试喔 哈哈assignment test, acting, video shooting...
- Cruise Tan等你来做我的 junior 喔
- Cruise Tan哈哈哈哈好笑好笑form 4 哪一班啊你 忘记了 LOL
- Cruise Tan老了拉对不起很少看到你的在学校
- Cruise Tan不用哦 xD记得请我喝水就好了
- Cruise Tan你记得就好了!
- Cruise Tan敲死你
- Cruise TanWow!!分十次
- Cruise Tan我不是别的男生哦
- Cruise Tan我喝不完我是帅哥
- Cruise Tan就让你请多一杯水吧 LOL
- Cruise Tan明年 spm 哦
- Cruise Tan更本没用到笨蛋的文凭
- Cruise Tan是拉哦你还没有跟我讲你有过几个男朋友 xDD
- Cruise Tan最好🙊🙊🙊
- Cruise Tan哈哈哈哈so cute
- Cruise Tan笑你的profile pic 臭酸了
- Cruise Tan🙊🙊🙊
- Cruise Tan叫 cruise!!我要去睡了哦 下次再陪你聊
END
For those newbie, I hope that I inspire you and give you the confidence that EVERYBODY can do pick up.
For those pro, I am still a newbie in doing PUA, and I really hope to improve. Do tell me what to improve in your opinion. :)